I want to tell you a story about me personally. Sometimes I wonder, why people are attracted to me. I am just not talking about the physical nature, but the emotional and intellectual aspects as well.
What makes me wonder is, that way back in my high school days up until the present, my classmates or colleagues would most of the time, choose me to be a group leader whenever there is an activity. Not to brag about this, but what I am saying is true. Every time I am chosen to lead in a particular exercise or project, I always ask myself why they chose me. Do I have the capabilities to function as a leader?
I have always been kind of reluctant when a responsibility of some sort is given to me. What I notice though in myself is my genuine ability to be courteous and respectful to someone. I can readily smile to whoever comes my way. I am open to sharing whatever knowledge or skill I have in a particular area or topic. Though I lack skills and expertise in one area, I excel in other areas too. And, I never stop seeking for higher learning. I enjoy spending my time in good trivial and intellectually stimulating conversations with my friends and family.
Although I am proud of what I have achieved, I thank God for the blessings and even the trials. I never boast of my assets whenever someone praises me for a job well done. And I always think that someone is much more witty and smarter or learned than me. This is keeping my feet firmly planted on the ground.
Maybe these good qualities of mine magnet me to like-minded people and enable me to meet new friends and even help old friendships last. The key is being yourself and accepting who you are, and be generous of your ideas. And also by loving yourself, you can attract loving and nurturing energies from just about anyone. "Like attracts like", it never changes. Mathematically speaking, equations such as + . + = +, and - . + = -. If you are positive, then you multiply your positive vibrations, but if you are negative about everything, even though there are positive sources out there, it will still result to (-).
The change must start from within ourselves. Start attracting the (+) today!